So today is December 23. Its Christmas Eve Eve. Does it feel that way to you guys? It doesn’t even feel like December to me, let alone two days before Christmas.
This had always been my favorite time of year. The snow and lights, the hot chocolate and carols, the tree and wrapping presents. It always gets me. But recently, year after year, it doesn’t feel like Christmas.
Is it because they’re calling for 50 degrees instead of a white Christmas? Is it because my boys are getting older and they know gifts are coming from mom and dad and not a man in a red suit? Is it because we never took the drive to look at the Christmas lights? Is it because instead of toys under the tree, its mostly clothes because there will be the gaming computer you’ve been asking for?
I don’t know. I can’t tell you why it doesn’t feel like Christmas this year. I know I went through this same thing last year. Is it because Grandma and Grandpa are both gone now, and Grandpa on dad’s side so we don’t even have a Christmas Eve family thing we do. Is it because of the weather? Is it because my boys are teenager and almost teenager? I honestly don’t know.
What I do know is that you could tell me this is a cold October and I would believe you. You could tell me I’m just not trying hard enough. You could tell me lots of things and you could be right.
For the record, the only nativity scene I got out was Grandpa John’s little one. I didn’t get out my super very nice one. I did pull out the Advent calendar and filled it with treats for the boys, but it was December 6th when I did that. I brought the tree in from the garage, but the boys put it together, decorated it, and then decorated the rest of the house. I’m just not feeling it.
And it’s not the Jesus part. The baby in the manger that saved us all, I feel that. It’s the rest of it. Twice in the last week when my normal radio station was playing commercials, I turned to the local Christian music station. They advertise all Christmas all the time this time of year. Both times I caught a sermon and no music.
The first time the pastor was talking about when Jesus called Peter to walk on the water. And he started talking about fear. Fear is what made Peter sink. I really enjoyed what he was saying and listened to it the whole way home. It didn’t feel like a Christmas sermon but whatever.
A couple days later, on my way home I tried again to get the Christmas carols because Christian Christmas carols are my favorite. And again the preacher was talking. And again he was talking about Peter walking on the water with Jesus. And then the preacher said that if you read the story it says Peter started to sink. STARTED TO SINK. The preacher went on to say that fear doesn’t overtake you and you are immediately underwater. The fear slowly sneaks in and it slowly pulls you under.
I’d never thought of it that way. But that’s exactly the way it works. Fear slowly pulls you under the water. And I’ve been there. I’ve felt the fear pull me down slowly. It grabs on to one thing, and then another, and then another. And then suddenly like Peter was underwater and then I feel the same way.
And maybe that’s why it doesn’t feel like Christmas. Maybe it’s fear. Maybe I stopped looking at Jesus like Peter. I know why I celebrate Christmas, and my family knows why we celebrate Christmas. My boys can tell you the original Christmas story. We talk about Jesus’s birthday a lot.
But I do have fear. Am I not doing it right? Am I missing something? Am I not good enough? Am I not doing enough?
Even if it doesn’t feel like Christmas, take this moment and look to Jesus. Look at the baby in the manger. Look at the mom who knew her baby is going to save the world. Think of the mom who has to be full of fear because the little baby she is holding is going to change everything.
If fear is pulling you under the water, look to Jesus. Especially the next two days, I’m going to try to overcome the fear, not just about the holiday but all my fears, and just look at Jesus. I hope that you all can look to Jesus and walk on the water instead of sinking.
Wishing you the merriest of Christmas’s
Love 2crazylittleboys